How Baby Boomers and Millennials Differ in Terms of Death Taboo

Each generation has their own characteristics and experiences that shape their beliefs, including those about death. While death taboo is still common among many younger generations like Millennials, older generations like Baby Boomers are trying to change that.

So how exactly do these generations view death, and why is death taboo still common? Let’s look.

Baby Boomers’ View on Death

Baby Boomers are more open to discussing death because they’ve generally experienced more deaths of loved ones that younger generations. Although this may not be true for everyone, most Baby Boomers have already experienced the loss of their grandparents, pets, and other loved ones.

Currently, many Baby Boomers are experiencing the loss of their aunts, uncles and soon, their own parents. And  these losses are arguably the ones that make Baby Boomers aware of the ubiquity of death and their own eventual death.

Even though by about age 10 everyone understands the ubiquity of death, you don’t truly understand until it effects you. Author Robert Kopecky sums this up nicely in the article Experiencing Life and Death Across Generations, stating that ‘it isn’t until you get a little older that a slightly more adult perception starts to form and you also first begin to notice the seriousness of death’.

Baby Boomers’ realisation of the seriousness of death sparks their desire for personalisation. As you know, Baby Boomers are the generation to introduce the desire for personalised funeral experiences. They want funerals to be personal and reflect the life being honoured. That’s why many Baby Boomers are pre-planning their funerals, so they can die on their own terms and not burden their children or grandchildren with the decisions. But will Millennials follow suit?

Millennials and Death Taboo. Many Millennials make it to their mid-20’s before experiencing the death of someone close. The deaths of their grandparents are often the first deaths they experience. Although this isn’t the case for everyone, as there are accidents, illnesses and other tragic or unexpected deaths.

The lack of experience with death contributes to why many Millennials don’t talk about death; they think they’re too young to think about death, even though it will happen to everyone. There’s also a sense of fear and anxiety toward death, but this also may be due to their lack of experience and full understanding of the permanence of death.

Even though Millennials aren’t talking openly about death as Baby Boomers, they have their own unique methods for coping with grief – such as yoga, meditation, stress-relieving apps and other techniques. As they age, they’ll gain a better understanding of death. However, that doesn’t mean their funeral arrangement wishes will be the same as the Baby Boomers.

How to Relate to These Generations. When your funeral home’s staff is funeral planning with your families, keep their generational influences in mind. Each family mix of generations brings their own death experiences and funeral beliefs that shape their understanding of death. The discussion of funeral arrangement options may vary slightly from generation to generation.

For example, when planning with a Millennial, this may be one of their first funeral experiences. They may need more detailed explanations, and they may not have accepted the reality of their eventual death yet. Along with personalisation, Millennials are big on technology and innovation. Having a responsive website, providing digital funeral register books and other innovative tools are a must-have for this generation.

Written by Jenny Goldade

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